“No expectations, No disappointments”
Often we do come across this quotation in our daily life and more or less we do agree with it at some point in our life.
Most of the times, it is said that we should not keep any expectations from the person we love. Love if pure has no expectation. But is it always so?
I do not think so. The expectation in a relationship is a must. Without expectations, a relationship would become static rather than dynamic. The expectation is nothing but a silver lining of hope.
It is mostly believed that we expect from whom we love, but in reality, deep down in our unconscious minds, we expect from a few whom we think loves us as well.
Don’t we expect from the Almighty that at the end of every crisis or struggle in life He would do everything best for us? I think such expectation from the Almighty gives hope for better days in times of hardship. I think realistic expectations won’t bring disappointment, whereas unrealistic expectations might.
Yes, it is true that expectations are mostly asked of others and that is where the chances of its failure remain. What we need to learn is to know the difference between a realistic and an unrealistic desire, rather than preventing ourselves from keeping expectations in a relationship. I also believe that, if we totally stop expecting from our loved ones in a relationship then all the ingredients of love, trust and hope would melt away in time.
ยฉ Anushka Ghosh
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Valuable post. Well written. ๐๐
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Thank you Aman…๐
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Nicely put, my relationship has undergone many strains and sometimes you just have to let go of the ideal and hope for a better future, seems to work out as we celebrate 25 years knowing each other this August. Xxx
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Thank you for sharing your story…๐ Yes you are right sometimes we need to let go certain things.๐
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Deep words. Thank you for putting it in a persuasive manner ๐
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Thank you for your kind words of apprectiation..๐
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A great Reminder. Thanks for sharing
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Your sweet words of appreciation always encourage me. Thank you so much Shantanu..๐
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Clear and on point!! ๐
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Thank you Abdul..๐
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Thank you for expressing your creativity ๐
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Thank you for acceptance and appreciation…๐
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your post is 100% true and brilliant! I fully agree with you. You hv very rightly said-” realistic expectations wont bring disappointment”
Balancing of the expectations is the key word,Anu!
Love!
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Yes absolutely right Ravi… Thank you for your acknowledgement. . ๐ ๐
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You are always welcome,Anu!
How is your health now! keep well and be happy!
Love
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Much better. Thank you Ravi.
Be happy and keep smiling. ๐
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So true!!
Keep sharing ..dear!
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Thanks Riman ๐
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My pleasure ๐
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I am glad you are much better.But I want you to be fully recovered and i am sure this will happen soon!
Hug!
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Yes thank you… ๐ ๐
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wow, nicely written.. Cheers to that , No expectation is the key to happiness.
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Thank you… ๐
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Well written! Determining the right and the wrong expectations though…. That’s the real crux of a relationship…. Something which we fall to understand more often than not…
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Yes you are absolutely right. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and kind words of appreciation. ๐ ๐
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Hi Anu! How r you now!
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I am fine now..thank you for asking….how r you?
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Its nice to hear that you are fine now! I am good!
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Why have you stopped writing? Pl restart it!
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Yes I am trying to write something good … but it is actually not in my hand. ..it will come automatically when it wants to..how much I keep exercising my brain.. so it might take sometime.
Anyways thank you for asking Ravi. It means a lot…. ๐
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Ok Anu! I will be eagerly awaiting to read your next mail.Be cool and take it easy!
By the way , can i have your mail ID pl?
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Your blog about expectation is also nice…
Actually I have also written short blog about it
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Thank you…
Please share the link as I would like to read it.. . ๐๐
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That is on my page you can check it,,if you like to
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Mind blowing post
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Thank you so much. .. ๐
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Please read my first post
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Yes of course. .
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Hi , Your posts are so good and I think, they are close to reality !!, Thanks for sharing ! Keep Posting ๐
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Thank you so much for your kind words of appreciation. .. ๐
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Last lines are truly wonderful one must know the difference between realistic and unrealistic expectations!
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Thank you dear..โกโก
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I think Expectation is our right…if we love someone then we expect from him/her..we don’t expect anything from stranger..we expect only from our loved ones
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Exactly..thank you for your feedback. . ๐
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You are so together with your words and depth,a incredible gift and flow, โฎ๏ธ
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Thank you so much… ๐ ๐
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