First blog post

This is my first writing for the blog readers. Hope you will enjoy reading my thoughts and spread my words more through your choice.

I was wondering what to write and how to start when I remember one of the incidences to share. Leaving in your hands to decide whether it is love or satire in the name of love.

I am not giving names to the characters.

After a decade when she saw him on the social networking site, she couldn’t hold her feelings than to contact him. She managed to get his contact number and decided to call him. He was too happy as he still loves her. Hearing her voice after 10 long years brought goosebumps on his skin. She said that she is feeling guilty that 10 years back she left him without any explanation to marry another guy. So to get out of her guilt she called him to say sorry.

Soon from that one call, she continued to keep a secret affair with her past while at the same time celebrated her 10th marriage anniversary.

 

© Lovestruck#@satire ♡ ♡

Toxic

The year is about to end and a new year is knocking on our doorstep. Many of us have already jotted down “to do” and “not to do” list as new year resolution. Though till date I haven’t made any such to do list in any of the new years but this year I have decided to ask all my dear friends and also to myself to keep ourselves at a distance from “toxic” people around us. Now who are these “toxic” people you might be thinking , right?

Well, a toxic person is the one who seems very sweet and dear to you when they enter into your life but as time passes you realize they are too acidic in nature and are in the process of making you fragile from inside and at that point when you need them most, they will leave you alone and almost devastated.
Again, after years when you get back your smile and is virtually in the phase of getting over such person they again appears out of the blue in your life to ruin your life once more. If you allow such person to be part of your life once more, then it would be like digging your own grave.

So keep the coming year for yourself and for those few who really matter to your life. Say good bye to the year as well to those toxic people whose absence is much better than their presence.

Love, live and have fun. Wishing all my dear bloggers a very Happy Christmas and New Year.

 

© Anushka Ghosh
Lovestruck # @satire ♡♡

Infidelity

When two adults cheat their partners,the common explanation they give when got caught is that there are no such feelings left between them and their partners. They are no more in love with him or her but have found a new love, who can be even his wife’s best friend with whom he was introduced by his wife in their marriage anniversary or that person can be her husbands colleague with whom she was introduced by her husband in her last surprise birthday party.
If the cheaters get humiliated by the other family members for their such behavior then suddenly rather then feeling guilty, they started acting as being victim of these whole situation. Falling in love with another person is not a crime but the cheaters cannot decide from their partners point of view. They cannot declare that their is no love left between him or her with their respective partners. May be their partners to whom they have cheated still loves them whole heartedly . In this whole situation you are getting someone with whom you are in love and dreaming to start a new innings of your life, but your partner lost not only his or her love but also trust, their dreams with you and most importantly confidence in themselves.
Yes I do believe as time passes they will get back their confidence, trust and may find a true love but all their life they cannot forget that painful phase of their life given by the person they had once loved so much.

© Anushka Ghosh
Lovestruck # @satire ♡♡

Love and War

“Everything is fair in love and war”

We do know this phrase for ages. But is it really so? Do love and war go together? Love is all about creation, while war is all about destruction. Love is alacrity, while war is apathy. Love is music while war is cacophony.
History has shown us, wars are fought in the name of love, but, after the gory battle,is it possible to hold that love?
Love is beautiful but can it be beautiful when painted in pool of bloodstream?

Is everything is really fair in love? No I don’t think so. We cannot do anything and everything  in love or for love. But, we can try to do so.We can only try our best to nurture the love. Neither we can beg nor we can fight for love.

Love is a blessing which can be felt but not touched, which can be experienced but cannot be forced upon others.

It just happens. If it is meant to be, it will survive and if not it will vanish before one can realize.

© Anushka Ghosh
Lovestruck # @satire ♡♡

Moonshine

As she closes her eyes comes the white light,
Takes her to hundreds of miles,
Where lives the moons and stars of her life.

She walks into the timeless space,
Music of love and life there plays,

And, everything she has ever wanted.

She started to dance in her golden gown,
Wearing her graceful queen crown,

In the soothing moonshine, holding her man’s arms.

Trickles then, the beam of sunlight,
Made her open the beautiful eyes,
She smiles and welcomes the morning mist.

© Anushka Ghosh
Lovestruck # @satire ♡♡

Friends

“The one who has a good friend doesn’t need any mirror ” by Rumi

A few weeks back while looking for an article I got a photo album of my school trip to Digha (a beach in India). While looking through the pictures I remembered not only my school friends but also those friends who came into my life at some point in my life and left their footprints.

So this odyssey of my life was made with those few who had either made it easier or more dramatic in its rhythm. In this whole span of life from school days to university I have been part of the group of pals who were distinctively different from each other in their nature. Most of them were like winds who came with a soothing feeling but left before one could realise their presence. There were some who were like snows, they looked beautiful but were too cold to stay for a longer time.

While there were few who were like drops of rain who will prevent you to step outside and would always demand to cherish them only. But the real friends were those who were like scorching sunlight, who will bother you with their heat but would always show you the right path by showering their light on you and would never leave you in darkness. Lucky are those who have got even one such friend like the sun.

© Anushka Ghosh
Lovestruck # @satire ♡♡

Expectation

“No expectations, No disappointments”

Often we do come across this quotation in our daily life and more or less we do agree with it at some point in our life.

Most of the times, it is said that we should not keep any expectations from the person we love. Love if pure has no expectation. But is it always so?

I do not think so. The expectation in a relationship is a must. Without expectations, a relationship would become static rather than dynamic. The expectation is nothing but a silver lining of hope.
It is mostly believed that we expect from whom we love, but in reality, deep down in our unconscious minds, we expect from a few whom we think loves us as well.

Don’t we expect from the Almighty that at the end of every crisis or struggle in life He would do everything best for us? I think such expectation from the Almighty gives hope for better days in times of hardship. I think realistic expectations won’t bring disappointment, whereas unrealistic expectations might.

Yes, it is true that expectations are mostly asked of others and that is where the chances of its failure remain. What we need to learn is to know the difference between a realistic and an unrealistic desire, rather than preventing ourselves from keeping expectations in a relationship. I also believe that, if we totally stop expecting from our loved ones in a relationship then all the ingredients of love, trust and hope would melt away in time.

© Anushka Ghosh
Lovestruck # @satire ♡♡

Unbreakable

“Goodbyes are only for those who love with their eyes. Because for those who love with heart and soul, there is no separation “. By Rumi

Sometimes we get engrossed with our own problems so much that in order to deal with our stressful situation, unknowingly we give too much pain to our near ones. One fails to realise that the person involved in a relationship with him or her, is more affected by his or her behaviour and mood swings. They might be trying their hard to give as much support as possible but the other partner in stress might not realise that he or she too has his or her personal life and might have their own problems as well. In such hard times, one might think of breaking the relationship and walk out from that relationship which they might have cherished together for several years. It is not that their love dies in such stressful situations rather it is their mental energy that lower down to that level from where they stop trying to put rest of their mental space to continue the relationship. They just want to vacate it as it becomes suffocating to live with it anymore.
But is that the end of any relationship that remained strong for so many years?
I think it is sometimes just an official end of the relationship, though an invisible string of love or hate keeps them attached for a lifetime in their unconscious mind which might get reflected in another demanding situation. While in some cases it might be the end of the relationship without any strings of love or hate but would always remain in their minds as a string of tangled memories.

© Anushka Ghosh
Lovestruck # @satire ♡♡