Unbreakable

“Goodbyes are only for those who love with their eyes. Because for those who love with heart and soul, there is no separation “. By Rumi

Sometimes we get engrossed with our own problems so much that in order to deal with our stressful situation, unknowingly we give too much pain to our near ones. One fails to realise that the person involved in a relationship with him or her, is more affected by his or her behaviour and mood swings. They might be trying their hard to give as much support as possible but the other partner in stress might not realise that he or she too has his or her personal life and might have their own problems as well. In such hard times, one might think of breaking the relationship and walk out from that relationship which they might have cherished together for several years. It is not that their love dies in such stressful situations rather it is their mental energy that lower down to that level from where they stop trying to put rest of their mental space to continue the relationship. They just want to vacate it as it becomes suffocating to live with it anymore.
But is that the end of any relationship that remained strong for so many years?
I think it is sometimes just an official end of the relationship, though an invisible string of love or hate keeps them attached for a lifetime in their unconscious mind which might get reflected in another demanding situation. While in some cases it might be the end of the relationship without any strings of love or hate but would always remain in their minds as a string of tangled memories.

ยฉ Anushka Ghosh
Lovestruck # @satire โ™กโ™ก

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48 thoughts on “Unbreakable

  1. Ah! Hat’s off to your writing! Relationship is a very complex matter.It takes years to nourish and built it but it can break in a second because of our ego and overexpectations.But I can say one thing with conviction that true love with heart and soul together can never break.They may not be visible but it remains in your subconcious mind till you die!
    Superb,Brilliant,splendid post and i truly loved it,Anu!

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    1. Thank you so much for your kind and wonderful words of appreciation. It means a lot… yes you are right it is very difficult to understand the complexities of relationship and we all learn it throughout our life experiences.
      Thank you once again for your valuable viewpoint.
      Have a nice day Ravi. ๐Ÿ˜Š

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  2. Love and hate? Is it not the love that causes the hate. It’s the love that hates that what should be good cannot come together. It is the love that discontinues a bad situation in order to not make it worse. Yes, it is expressed as hate, but it is only love hanging on until it breaks. Past that point the love is expressed as hate.

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  3. Good article. Pure love cannot break due to mental stress or any reason. Even though love breaks, it is for a time of some periods only. But soul is always reflecting pure love. Anyway I like your article. God bless you.

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