Throbbing

“Relationships are more important than life, but it is important for those relationships to have life in them.” – Swami Vivekananda.

Sometimes it is difficult to express your emotion without tears while sometimes one can cry inside without shedding a drop. It depends on person to person and sometimes on their experiences from life. It is really painful when the person for whom you are fighting day and night blames you and find faults in you for small things. One might think his or her contribution in the name of sacrifice for the relationship is much more than the opposite partner thereby bringing ego for every little thing. Yes, it might be true that you are doing a bit more than your partner but did you ever take time to think his or her role in it.

Maybe you cannot see that because your ego comes before your thoughts. Even if you know and wants to accept his or her contribution your ego would stop you from doing so. One cannot live his or her life when one of the partners showing doubts on the other partner whom he or she is claiming to be in love with all the good times. Love is not about being together all your life, rather it is about being happy to be with each other.

“I Love You” is easy to spell out and pronounce hundred times a day. But the difficulty is holding the true essence of its meaning in your life and relationship.

© Anushka Ghosh
Lovestruck # @satire ♡♡

48 thoughts on “Throbbing

  1. Relationship is an ongoing process. Ego is the main culprit and you have to work on it and other grey areas to make your relationship successful. Some time people take each other for granted which is wrong! Communication is also very important.Any problem shud be immediately discussed and sorted out.It shud not be ignored and kept under carpet!
    Loved your post. very well thought out and explained post.
    Kp smiling.

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  2. Hello Anuskha

    I’m happy to let you know of the rescheduled date for the blog party which is to be on 23 May 2018. And I hope to see you at party!

    Thanks for your support!
    Nathi

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  3. Very true, totally agreed!…… “Love is not about being together all your life, rather it is about being happy to be with each other”

    Happiness comes when one is not trying to possess other or not trying to project what s/he wants to get or see in other… Accepting things in whole makes life more beautiful… 🙂

    Your posts are nice to read… Great work…. 🙂

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